Are you wanting to achieve a very important goal, but it stubbornly remains elusive? There is a good chance it is because of you and the way you are going about it. What if you had the courage to see what it is about you that can change to experience your much-needed breakthrough?
We see very little of the opportunities to thrive because they are so many! In our flow, this changes in the most profound ways. When you are engaged, informed and focused on being of value, the world has a tendency to reciprocate, but not because it’s a fair world. Not at all, in case you hadn’t noticed! It reciprocates because life by design is built on sustainable relationships. Nature does it and in our flow, we emulate nature and do it too.
What about when you see what you want, but it’s not working out? What do you do then? Do you work harder, communicate louder and push for it to work? This is a weak one-dimensional reaction to an elusive goal that rarely works or is sustainable.
Resistance reveals a structure preventing your alignment to realise your goal. Stop, slow down and pay attention to the details of the structure in place that is not allowing of that goal to be realised. Your brain has so many assumptions about what is valuable to you and what you’re capable of. This is what the structure is created from. This becomes the handicap and revaluating it becomes the priority.
The more you become accustomed to the intricacies of what attracts or repels a relationship, the easier it will become to adapt so attraction is enhanced in an authentic way. Deconstruct your perception and you will discover that you have been conditioned to persistently obey that structure without discernment, even though it is not serving you. You will also discover the deception and the choice to change it. Suddenly you are compatible with someone where you never imagined possible and it is not feigned or faked – it ironically feels more natural. It shows how our conditioning can deviate us from our true selves, effortlessly and for a lifetime if we allow it.
Change how you relate and you change the reality. You change and the relationship has to change because that person cannot interact with you the same way again. Your experience changes in accordance with your non-negotiable values. So the next time you feel pressed against an invisible barrier, preventing you from realising your goal to connect and enjoy that connection, pay attention to the details of the resistance and pain points. Then be willing to dive deep into the reasons for that resistance. The truth of that will dissolve the barrier and your flow will take care of the rest. Expect love to be felt more intensely and gratitude to join in on the party.